a clearer and better picture

after all that has happened over the past few weeks...the articles i've read...the advice i've heard...i have a clearer and better picture of the mistakes i've made...

i realise i've got to stop being a knucklehead when it comes to seeing what you can offer and start finding the right audience who'll appreciate what you have...

being "a nice guy" is not a trait that girls are specifically looking for...any joker can be a nice guy...not saying that u must be a meanie to girls or neglect the niceness department, but being "nice" alone doesn't set you apart from the REST of the other "nice guys"...

if you cannot attract her at the first try, it's highly unlikely she'll ever be attracted to you...attraction just happens...it cannot be forced...i like these sentences from my previous post which pretty much sends the message across...

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL

another thing which i think is pretty darn important is knowing exactly what to do in each type of situation with women...if you dont know what to do or how to do it correctly, you'll probably screw it up...

i know what i've got to offer...nothing much to shout about...nothing spectacular at all really...not doing the "being modest or pessimistic or low self esteem" nonsense, but no one else knows me better than myself...

if there's any consolation i can give myself, i can only say that i've not found my audience who can appreciate me for what i am yet...